I didn't really kill my truck. I got in a double accident. I was driving on a freeway on ramp and started to fish tail. Normally when you start to fish tail you let up off the gas and it will correct itself. That didn't happen, it started to really fish tail so I tried… Continue reading Adventures in Learning to Car: I Killed my Truck
Like any introspective person when a series of the same events happens repetitively in a short period of time I question what my part is and how to fix it. Right now it happens to relate to my dating life. For most of the last year I have been dating casually, dating guys under the… Continue reading Change in Direction
The question I hear most when I tell people I'm in an open relationship "so how does that work?" My standard sarcastic response is "well" with a big smile on my face. But really it works like neither of us feels like monogamy is required for relationship happiness. As a matter of fact we both… Continue reading How Does That Work?
I'm not the kind of person who sends naked photos. I don't think there is anything wrong with it. I personally don't because I don't want to end up on Google or anywhere on the internet for career minded reasons. I also feel if you're going to send photos ahead of time it takes the… Continue reading Naked Pictures
This is not a list of dumb things like "nobody looks like their picture", it's real topics people should be thinking about while dating. 1. If a women's not on birth control she has a 18% chance of getting pregnant at any given time. That means you have 5 spoons full of sugar and one… Continue reading Things You Need to Know About Online Dating
You'd think that's what you'd be worried most about in an open relationship, the other women. I guess it depends on what kind of open relationship you have. I'm lucky enough that I get to connect with other potential partners of my partner sometimes and I've met some really awesome women. Not to make it… Continue reading A Benefit of Open Relationships: The Other Women
I've done a fair bit of dating this year and as per usual I found myself liking yet another guy who has a history of substance abuse. It got me to thinking, why? What is it about this really specific kind of person that I always like? Drugs have been around my world for as… Continue reading Addicted to Addicts?
People are always willing to talk about the fun parts of being an attractive girl. How you get things like free drinks and parking. How people tell you you're pretty all the time. How people pay attention to you. No one want's to talk about the ugly parts because if you call yourself pretty you're… Continue reading You’re Lucky You’re Pretty
So you know I'm a cute girl, boys approach me about dating a lot. I can't date everyone, there's just not time but I'm polite about it. I tell them I'm sorry I don't have time for dating right now and a lot of the time the response I get is "what about just sex?"… Continue reading What About Just Sex?
I was in a discussion recently about resolving conflict in relationships through honest communication. One of them mentioned two things that I think are pretty normal in relationships, the first was having a hard time with patience while waiting for loved ones to connect with and articulate their feelings and also how much resolution is… Continue reading Resolving Relationship Conflict and Emotional Processing