I've fought hard to live honestly as a non monogamous person. Dating around isn't always fun and reindeer games. There's men that I've really likes that haven't been ok with it and couldn't date because I wouldn't entertain the idea of monogamy. I've had to break hearts of guys that thought they could change my… Continue reading Why I Don’t Cheat
Yep I was actually in a 4 year monogamous relationship. I didn't plan it that way, when I started dating the guy I happen to have not been seeing anyone else then he asked me to be mono and I figured I could give it a try as an adult. You don't really know your… Continue reading I Was Monogamous Once
Like any introspective person when a series of the same events happens repetitively in a short period of time I question what my part is and how to fix it. Right now it happens to relate to my dating life. For most of the last year I have been dating casually, dating guys under the… Continue reading Change in Direction
The question I hear most when I tell people I'm in an open relationship "so how does that work?" My standard sarcastic response is "well" with a big smile on my face. But really it works like neither of us feels like monogamy is required for relationship happiness. As a matter of fact we both… Continue reading How Does That Work?
I'm not the kind of person who sends naked photos. I don't think there is anything wrong with it. I personally don't because I don't want to end up on Google or anywhere on the internet for career minded reasons. I also feel if you're going to send photos ahead of time it takes the… Continue reading Naked Pictures
This is not a list of dumb things like "nobody looks like their picture", it's real topics people should be thinking about while dating. 1. If a women's not on birth control she has a 18% chance of getting pregnant at any given time. That means you have 5 spoons full of sugar and one… Continue reading Things You Need to Know About Online Dating
I've done a fair bit of dating this year and as per usual I found myself liking yet another guy who has a history of substance abuse. It got me to thinking, why? What is it about this really specific kind of person that I always like? Drugs have been around my world for as… Continue reading Addicted to Addicts?
So you know I'm a cute girl, boys approach me about dating a lot. I can't date everyone, there's just not time but I'm polite about it. I tell them I'm sorry I don't have time for dating right now and a lot of the time the response I get is "what about just sex?"… Continue reading What About Just Sex?
I was in a discussion recently about resolving conflict in relationships through honest communication. One of them mentioned two things that I think are pretty normal in relationships, the first was having a hard time with patience while waiting for loved ones to connect with and articulate their feelings and also how much resolution is… Continue reading Resolving Relationship Conflict and Emotional Processing
Last time I was in the dating world as a single person I was 22. Meaning I didn't have a boyfriend or primary partner. Since then I've still been in the dating world but not as a single person. It's been a roller coaster of a year with my partner and I, so I had… Continue reading When I Meet The Right Man