2016 has definitely been the year of learning about love. I learned I am capable of loving someone so deeply that my heart feels full and like it could never be filled by anyone else in the world. I learned that love comes in a lot of forms. I learned that love doesn't mean compatability… Continue reading Learning About Love
I've fought hard to live honestly as a non monogamous person. Dating around isn't always fun and reindeer games. There's men that I've really likes that haven't been ok with it and couldn't date because I wouldn't entertain the idea of monogamy. I've had to break hearts of guys that thought they could change my… Continue reading Why I Don’t Cheat
Yep I was actually in a 4 year monogamous relationship. I didn't plan it that way, when I started dating the guy I happen to have not been seeing anyone else then he asked me to be mono and I figured I could give it a try as an adult. You don't really know your… Continue reading I Was Monogamous Once
Like any introspective person when a series of the same events happens repetitively in a short period of time I question what my part is and how to fix it. Right now it happens to relate to my dating life. For most of the last year I have been dating casually, dating guys under the… Continue reading Change in Direction
The question I hear most when I tell people I'm in an open relationship "so how does that work?" My standard sarcastic response is "well" with a big smile on my face. But really it works like neither of us feels like monogamy is required for relationship happiness. As a matter of fact we both… Continue reading How Does That Work?
I'm not the kind of person who sends naked photos. I don't think there is anything wrong with it. I personally don't because I don't want to end up on Google or anywhere on the internet for career minded reasons. I also feel if you're going to send photos ahead of time it takes the… Continue reading Naked Pictures
So you know I'm a cute girl, boys approach me about dating a lot. I can't date everyone, there's just not time but I'm polite about it. I tell them I'm sorry I don't have time for dating right now and a lot of the time the response I get is "what about just sex?"… Continue reading What About Just Sex?
Last time I was in the dating world as a single person I was 22. Meaning I didn't have a boyfriend or primary partner. Since then I've still been in the dating world but not as a single person. It's been a roller coaster of a year with my partner and I, so I had… Continue reading When I Meet The Right Man
I am kind of funny when it comes to dating. I don't want someone to be my boyfriend or try and be super involved in each others lives. There has only been one person to date that I have actually wanted to be serious with and integrate our lives in a traditional relationship kind of… Continue reading Romantic Friendships
I got to go on my first new date with a guy who didn't already know I had my tubes tied. It was the first time I got to tell someone in a romantic context and see how they reacted. The subject of McDonald's came up while we were eating at the best Thai good… Continue reading Telling My Date I’m Sterile