I've fought hard to live honestly as a non monogamous person. Dating around isn't always fun and reindeer games. There's men that I've really likes that haven't been ok with it and couldn't date because I wouldn't entertain the idea of monogamy. I've had to break hearts of guys that thought they could change my… Continue reading Why I Don’t Cheat
Yep I was actually in a 4 year monogamous relationship. I didn't plan it that way, when I started dating the guy I happen to have not been seeing anyone else then he asked me to be mono and I figured I could give it a try as an adult. You don't really know your… Continue reading I Was Monogamous Once
The question I hear most when I tell people I'm in an open relationship "so how does that work?" My standard sarcastic response is "well" with a big smile on my face. But really it works like neither of us feels like monogamy is required for relationship happiness. As a matter of fact we both… Continue reading How Does That Work?
I got to go on my first new date with a guy who didn't already know I had my tubes tied. It was the first time I got to tell someone in a romantic context and see how they reacted. The subject of McDonald's came up while we were eating at the best Thai good… Continue reading Telling My Date I’m Sterile