Yep I was actually in a 4 year monogamous relationship. I didn't plan it that way, when I started dating the guy I happen to have not been seeing anyone else then he asked me to be mono and I figured I could give it a try as an adult. You don't really know your… Continue reading I Was Monogamous Once
Like any introspective person when a series of the same events happens repetitively in a short period of time I question what my part is and how to fix it. Right now it happens to relate to my dating life. For most of the last year I have been dating casually, dating guys under the… Continue reading Change in Direction
The question I hear most when I tell people I'm in an open relationship "so how does that work?" My standard sarcastic response is "well" with a big smile on my face. But really it works like neither of us feels like monogamy is required for relationship happiness. As a matter of fact we both… Continue reading How Does That Work?
You'd think that's what you'd be worried most about in an open relationship, the other women. I guess it depends on what kind of open relationship you have. I'm lucky enough that I get to connect with other potential partners of my partner sometimes and I've met some really awesome women. Not to make it… Continue reading A Benefit of Open Relationships: The Other Women
Last time I was in the dating world as a single person I was 22. Meaning I didn't have a boyfriend or primary partner. Since then I've still been in the dating world but not as a single person. It's been a roller coaster of a year with my partner and I, so I had… Continue reading When I Meet The Right Man