2016 has definitely been the year of learning about love. I learned I am capable of loving someone so deeply that my heart feels full and like it could never be filled by anyone else in the world. I learned that love comes in a lot of forms. I learned that love doesn't mean compatability… Continue reading Learning About Love
I've fought hard to live honestly as a non monogamous person. Dating around isn't always fun and reindeer games. There's men that I've really likes that haven't been ok with it and couldn't date because I wouldn't entertain the idea of monogamy. I've had to break hearts of guys that thought they could change my… Continue reading Why I Don’t Cheat
Yep I was actually in a 4 year monogamous relationship. I didn't plan it that way, when I started dating the guy I happen to have not been seeing anyone else then he asked me to be mono and I figured I could give it a try as an adult. You don't really know your… Continue reading I Was Monogamous Once
I've done a fair bit of dating this year and as per usual I found myself liking yet another guy who has a history of substance abuse. It got me to thinking, why? What is it about this really specific kind of person that I always like? Drugs have been around my world for as… Continue reading Addicted to Addicts?
I was in a discussion recently about resolving conflict in relationships through honest communication. One of them mentioned two things that I think are pretty normal in relationships, the first was having a hard time with patience while waiting for loved ones to connect with and articulate their feelings and also how much resolution is… Continue reading Resolving Relationship Conflict and Emotional Processing
I am kind of funny when it comes to dating. I don't want someone to be my boyfriend or try and be super involved in each others lives. There has only been one person to date that I have actually wanted to be serious with and integrate our lives in a traditional relationship kind of… Continue reading Romantic Friendships
My room mate asked me if I've ever thought about being a relationships counselor. I actually have but I would hate to go through all that schooling. Also my views seem radical to compared to others sometimes and I don't know how receptive people would be. So I was thinking oh yeah I have a… Continue reading Online Dating And Non Monogamy